Are you in the (Sorta) Secret Sisterhood?

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Let's take a look at the business side of health coaching for a minute. As a business owner, I spend a fair amount of time networking, and in networking groups—as in business—it's vital to know who your "target market" is and to narrow your focus—your "niche"—down to a very specific group of people whom you serve. There are entire books written about the topic, whole classes and webinars dev...
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Everybody poops…

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When I was studying to become a health coach, one of my favorite lectures was titled, "Does Your Poop Float?" I wish I could remember the lecturer's name, but it has escaped me. I just remember listening to it in the car with my then 8-year-old son, who actually asked me to play it again on a later trip. Because boys and scatology. One of my favorite podcasts is Healthy View Radio, hosted by th...
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I’ll have what she’s having…

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If you're about my age and you've seen When Harry Met Sally, there's at least one line that people of our generation all know: I'll have what she's having. It seems like every generation has a line or two like that, and even when we hear them out of context, it still makes us laugh. As a coach, I support women in their 40s and beyond in navigating the next stage of their lives with good heal...
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Normal vs. common | Learning in the loud moms’ corner

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I'm not much of a gym fan—I've flirted with them before, even had (always brief) love affairs with them, but I always return to working out at and from home. When we lived in California, it was easy to get enough exercise outdoors year round. When we moved to Michigan (before we had Kermit the Dog and the kids were younger), it got a bit more difficult. I needed to move more, my daughter was...
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High anxiety (in the dentist’s chair)

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I usually try to avoid the word "hate"—there's enough hate in the world already, no need to add to the bad energy. Yeah, I'm the one on social media who really, really tries to promote what I love rather than gripe about what I ... um ... don't love. But I'm just gonna say it: I hate going to the dentist. Nothing makes me more nauseous than the idea of sitting in that chair. Nothing. Well, o...
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Pet Lessons

Is it really possible that Spring has sprung in Michigan finally? This past winter really felt endless—more so than others for some reason. And yet, thanks to a new furbaby we acquired in October, I have spent at least an hour (sometimes two) outdoors every day. I joke that Kermit and I are even more reliable than the US Postal Service, whose unofficial creed—adapted from a poem and carved i...
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Happy Mother’s Day (just say no)

Ahhh, Spring. We wait for it with longing, especially here in Michigan, where it comes quite late and often teases us for a while before committing. And then, just as there's a huge wind storm every Fall that strips off the last leaves (along with a lot of branches), every Spring there's a day of downpours after which everything bursts into bloom (and the worms litter the pavement). That's n...
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Spring detox (further proof that I’m so basic?)

I love tulips: I love their beautiful simplicity, the fact that they herald the arrival of Spring, the variety of colors they come in, the fact that the financial health of an entire country rose and fell on their backs. (Do they have backs? They certainly bend over rather quickly once put in a vase. Anyway, you can read all about the tulip empire in Michael Pollan's Botany of Desire.)  Imagine...
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Dr. Seuss is in the house (and in the kitchen)!

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If you've followed me for a while, you know that in addition to being a health coach, I have a side hustle that used to be my full-time job and that I still adore—from a bit of a distance since I'm now a part-time contractor and mostly work from home. Last week, one of my colleagues celebrated her birthday, and our team decided to have breakfast in person rather than have our weekly phone check...
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Whine + cheese | What’s the payoff?

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Very often, when I encounter a deeply-entrenched, clearly unhealthy habit in a client, I get curious about the payoff: every habit, according to research in this area, brings with it a reward, a hit of pleasure hormones. That's ridiculous, you might think. What possible payoff is there in a habit that doesn't support your health? Well, I guess you could ask any smoker that question.... Havin...
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